Ask Miss Smartypants - July 20, 2009 |
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| Written by Miss Smartypants |
| Monday, 20 July 2009 06:37 |
Art: Nina Charest
It's the Sex issue, so guess what kind of questions Miss Smartypants is answering this month! Send yours (on topic or not) to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . Dear Miss Smartypants, Dear That Makes Two of Us, I tend to think of any sex act this way: if you're both into it, that's great. If one of you is into it, maybe the other one should give it a try (within limits). Obviously you two had not discussed such an idea in the past, and you weren't into it at the time. That's a reasonable limit. If you're not into performance art, you should tell him straight up and now before another such opportunity arises. If you'd be willing to give it a try, you don't need a special technique to broach the topic. Any time you feel comfortable bringing it up, do so. Pre- and post- are classics for this kind of talk, though any time you are alone together will work. And as for how to make him stop? Say no and mean it. If he doesn't respect that, he doesn't respect you, and then you've got bigger problems to deal with. Reasonably, Miss Smartypants
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