Ask Miss Smartypants - June 1, 2009 |
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| Written by Miss Smartypants |
| Sunday, 31 May 2009 19:00 |
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I like this girl. Problem is, she's one of my brother's closest friends. Scratch that -- she's his über-friend. I told him I'm interested, but he hasn't exactly been supportive. He wasn't supportive the last time I went after one of his friends either. To be honest, I think he's harbouring a little crush on her himself (not that he's admitted anything). My friends say that I'm not responsible for his shit and should make my move regardless. I'm pretty sure that there's a way to deal with his shit, my shit, and get the girl. Isn't there? Gonna Make Her Mine Dear In the Shit, So, you've got a habit of dating your brother's friends, and you wonder why he isn't jumping up and down with joy when you want to lay claim to his "über-friend"? Yes, he must be crushing on her. Did it ever occur to you that maybe he doesn't want to lose another friend to your dating pool? He's your brother, so you probably know better than I do if he's interested in her romantically, but think about what happens when two people get together: they spend more time with, confide in, and generally pay attention to each other. It's only natural to bond when you start dating someone, but can you really blame him if he doesn't want to lose his number one confidant to you? When it comes to dating friends of friends, it's best to play it safe. Start by figuring out if she's interested in you, and go from there. Cautiously, Miss Smartypants Should you ask her/him/it/they out? Only Miss Smartypants knows. Start by checking with her at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .
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